Reality TV exploded when news dropped that “Vanderpump Rules” alum James Kennedy was arrested for misdemeanor domestic violence on December 10 in Burbank, California. Amid the chaos, his girlfriend Ally Lewber – the astrologer-singer turned Bravo personality – did something nobody expected: she initially stood by him. Sources say the duo is still together. Or at least, they were… for now.
Here’s the freaky timeline: the night of the blow-up, James and Ally attended a holiday gathering thrown by Kathy Hilton in Los Angeles. They returned home, allegedly got into an argument, a neighbour reportedly heard the screaming, and 911 was called. That led to James’ arrest, a $20,000 bail, and a media frenzy. According to a witness, James allegedly grabbed the woman, though cops did not see visible injuries on arrival.
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Despite all that, sources told TMZ that the couple was “putting on a united front” – Ally was seen out and about the next evening, seemingly fine and not acting as if her world had blown up. Their inside-scoop? “It was a misunderstanding,” said sources. No formal breakup announcement. The couple, who had been together for over two years, reportedly had no immediate plans to split.
Sounds like a win for Team Kennedy? Not exactly. Because less than a month later, things took another turn. On January 22, 2025, Ally Lewber officially announced they were no longer together. She thanked her supporters and revealed that although she was not physically hurt, the argument stemmed from James’ drinking. The Burbank City Attorney’s Office later confirmed no criminal charges would be filed against James.
So let’s rewind and analyze:
- Night of December 10 – An argument occurs, and James is arrested.
- Days following – Screens show Ally acting normally, with no drama posts, signs pointing to “we’re staying together.”
- Weeks later, Ally calls it quits, says the relationship was “toxic,” and admits she’s “grateful” it ended.
During this period, James posted a statement on Instagram: “I am committed to making meaningful changes in my life… taking time to focus on my sobriety, personal growth, and being present for loved ones.”
Meanwhile, Ally – once labeled the steadying force next to James – revealed in her own words that the relationship was more complicated than it looked on Bravo episodes: “We had an argument outside of his home related to him drinking again… I was not physically hurt,” she wrote. “I’ll always support James and wish him the best with his sobriety and healing.” :contentReference[oaicite:10]{index=10}
You’d think the headline would be “Couple Splits After Arrest”-but the story initially said **no split**. Then, plot twist, they actually split. It’s the kind of celebrity taboo-tango that TMZ thrives on. James’ representative maintained that charges would likely never be filed, while Ally kept smiling and preaching astrology in the public eye.
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From a pop-culture vantage point, there’s a lot to unpack: James Kennedy – DJ, Bravo alums, relationship-history king – mirrors his show-story persona: wild, impulsive, loud. Ally Lewber – quiet sidekick turned breakout, astrologer, singer – seemed to have found center. Then the real drama hits the tabloids. The show meets the off-screen meltdown.
And the timing? Brutal. This happened mid-season, amidst Bravo chaos, during relationship arcs, press tours, and social media snapshots of perfect coupledom. One moment you’re dancing at an affluent holiday party; the next, you’re in a police booking photo. Life-imitation-reality-TV-style. And let’s not forget, fans and detractors were already overanalyzing James’ past.
So if you’re asking, “Are they still together?”-the answer is layered: initially, yes, publicly presenting unity. But beneath the veneer? The breakup announcement suggests no. The shift from “standing by him” to “I’m out” seems driven by Ally’s decision to reclaim her power and peace. The public image of loyalty? That lasted maybe a week.
What’s next? James is re-focusing on his DJ career and sobriety journey. Ally is pivoting hard into astrology – launching content, embracing single life, and rebranding. The relationship chapter might be closed for good. Their fans, who turned watchers, will wait for the next Bravo reunion episode. Spoiler: neither drugs, drama, nor DJ sets are going quietly.
Takeaway? Celebrity romance, especially within reality-TV circuits, is full of illusions, edits, late-night arguments and morning press statements. One argument and one arrest = instant tabloid fodder. Whether he grabbed her, or whether he didn’t-it triggered a movement: from staying together publicly to stepping apart privately. The narrative shifted quicker than a DJ mix drop.
Final word: watch the social feeds, the paparazzi picks, the Bravo season promos. What began as “supporting my man” turned into “supporting my healing.” And in true pop-culture handbook style, this one is far from over. Reality TV didn’t end; it rewrote itself backstage.
